{"id":10882,"date":"2011-03-23T17:07:23","date_gmt":"2011-03-23T23:07:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.genealogyblog.com\/?p=10882"},"modified":"2011-03-23T17:07:23","modified_gmt":"2011-03-23T23:07:23","slug":"genealogy-the-easy-way","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.genealogyblog.com\/?p=10882","title":{"rendered":"Genealogy the Easy Way"},"content":{"rendered":"

The following article was written by my friend, Tom Fiske:<\/strong><\/p>\n

One of the dot com book companies sent me a small book of poems by my favorite author, Wendell Berry.* In one short poem Wendell described a \"Thomas method of doing genealogy that I thought was particularly useful. He wrote about his gratitude for his children and grandchildren and then said:<\/p>\n

At our dinners together, the dead
\nEnter and pass among us
\nIn living love and in memory.
\nAnd so the young are taught.<\/em><\/p>\n

I showed the poem to my wife Evie, and tears came to her eyes as she thought of her pretty daughter Julie, who was killed by a drunk driver on the eve of her wedding some twenty years ago. We have often talked about Julie with the grandchildren. <\/p>\n

In the author\u2019s artful description, not only is ancestry passed on but also it is used to teach the young. I cannot write how many times my family meals were conducted this way, in which \u201cthe dead enter(ed) and pass(ed) among us\u201d as someone told a story about a person from the past.<\/p>\n

It is a good thing the dead don\u2019t eat much, because many of these meals were conducted during the Great Depression or during WWII when food was scarce. But no matter how hungry I was, I always remembered the stories my parents or grandparents told. Now that my children are getting older they remind me that I told them stories as well. <\/p>\n

I am forced to wonder how much damage I did by telling the \u201cracier\u201d stories about my two older brothers and me rather than the stories in which we helped someone or showed some kindness. <\/p>\n

But that is water under the bridge. Having a long memory, I became the family genealogist and put my parents\u2019 stories to good use. I hope my grandchildren will save those tales for their kids. All things considered, I managed to make the stories into learning experiences in which I passed on part of the American culture. Maybe the dead paused long enough to approve. <\/p>\n

Of course they heard stories \u201cin living love\u201d because they were family and when I tell stories, family members always wear white hats – maybe hats with footprints on them or with holes through the crowns because we had our share of screwballs. But always they had white hats because they were the good guys.<\/p>\n

I kind of forgot the other kind of stories.<\/p>\n

*Berry, Wendell, Leavings<\/em>. Berkeley, CA: Counterpoint, 2011, p.41<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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